Why does she keep going back?

By Tanya Pearrell

 As we continue to learn more about those trafficked or exploited in the commercial sex industry this is a question we seek to answer. As you have read in previous blogs about exiting the industry there are many barriers that can prevent exit as well as lead to re-entry.

Financial Pressure/Inadequate Wages

For many that have left the industry, it is almost impossible to make the same amount of money at another job (while also setting their own hours). Whether it is the cost of everyday items or an out-of-the-ordinary expense that pops up, a lack of other options often leads to a return.

In the 2020 published article written by Dr. Ling Dinse and Karen Rice (entitled “Barriers to Exiting Commercial Sex Work” ) several women shared that they had left because they thought they had saved enough money or found a different job, only to return because of the financial pressure. One even shared that, while she had never left, if she came into a lot of money she would leave in an instant.

This can eliminate much of the discussion surrounding “choice”. As we see there is not much of a choice when it comes to providing for your family. It is rather a lack of choices.

Societal Stigma

Those within the commercial sex industry are diverse and have a variety of experiences. But there is one experience that is commonly identified among all: societal stigma, and how they are viewed by those on the “outside”.

The first step in removing this stigma is by examining our own attitudes and thoughts about those in the commercial sex industry. Do we view them negatively? Do we see them as helpless victims that need us to rescue them? Or do we see them as resilient survivors whom we have the privilege of walking alongside as a friend?

As we become aware of our own biases towards those in the industry, we are then better able to educate ourselves and others. With awareness, we are able to eliminate some of the barriers that can keep someone trapped in the exit/reentry cycle. Things like helping with furthering education, leading to a sustainable, livable salary. Partnerships with local businesses for job opportunities. Providing those same businesses with trauma-informed training.

What Action Can You Take?

It starts with educating yourself. Learn why and how women enter the commercial sex industry. Develop a basic knowledge of trauma and its life-long effects. Examine yourself to determine your own bias towards those in the industry. Then educate others. Speak out when you hear myths or negative talk about those in the industry.

If you would like to learn more about trafficking and exploitation, how it happens, and what you can do to prevent it, please reach out to tanya@shessomebodysdaughter.org